In China
In China in the nineteenth century
a woman wrapped her daughter's
chest tightly with rolls
of cloth.
My daughter is eleven.
She wears a "training" bra.
What is she training for?
We watch TV together
and everywhere dresses
drop like towels in a sauna.
Young women pant in bedrooms
like fires whipped
by high winds.
What is she thinking?
I switch channels but everywhere
young couples wrestle and moan
as if absorbing
hard, quick punches.
Are these the role models
for my daughter?
Soon she could be dating.
I can imagine the young man
standing in our doorway,
his bribe of CDs
waiting in his father's borrowed
car. His polite manner
won't fool me. I know.
I've been there.
Bob lives in California, where he dreams of retiring to a hammock. Forthcoming work of his will appear in Cha: An Asian Literary Journal in November 2009. New work will also be published soon at Writers Connect in Singapore. Recent poetry of his can be found at Halfway Down the Stairs, Chantarelle's Notebook, Concelebratory Shoehorn Review, The Rose and Thorn and Orange Room Review.